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Personal View: Toxicity

Toxic synonyms with hazardous, poisonous, venomous, virulent, noxious, dangerous, destructive, harmful, unsafe, malignant, injurious, pestilential, pernicious, environmentally unfriendly, but always being relate with chemical class. How toxic and what is the hazards of the toxic, what suppose to do to mitigate the toxic hazards, or to lower the risk or impact of any toxic related incidents, always and suppose to be mentioned in any Chemical Datasheet. Toxic People, have heard that? Yeah, after googling this post is really worth to read about. https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/in-flux/201608/8-things-the-most-toxic-people-in-your-life-have-in-common Have been knowing about toxic people since my working days. My third Employer would send all his new intake senior and junior management staff to the so called Personal Development and Leadership course. One of the course content is how to handle toxic treatment or so called negative feedback or thinking. Anyway, most of

Downturn Over and Over, Then Again~~~

Surely with Difficulty is Ease, with Difficulty Surely Ease. Downturn. Simple but hard to swallow. Another life experience worth learning. Back to the memory lane, still fresh in my mind, looking my Father no longer come home with his shining car, cycled around the town looking for the future end meets, and spent most of the time mowing the backyard, growing vegetables and many natural food stocks. Which as an innocent and ignorance child, it is just a perfect life having our old man busy time at home, spending most of the evening with us, what a blessing. Downturn. At the same period of time, I have being attending first year of school, which school being highly spoken among the community. Again, as an innocent and ignorance child, I am still wandering what school is for? Just another routine that everyone go through at age of 7? Or it is just another playground for kind of people aging 7-12? Every single moment at that time the questions keep spinning in my mind until my

In The Name of Allah Most Gracious Most Merciful - بِسْــــــــــــــــــمِ اللهِ الرَّحْمَنِ الرَّحِيْمِ

,اَلْحَمْدُلِلّهِ -Praise to Allah for Blessing Us to Live the Life not Leave the Life- -الرب على الله لبارك لنا أن نعيش الحياة لا تترك الحياة- The purpose me starting to write after 8 years of hibernation in active online postings, not only to share what is happening around me, but act as my life diary. During the Facebook Note days it was written in very Private way, hence realizing me on my younger days of pure immaturity and life lessons. For anyone accidentally reading my life notes, "Just sit back, relax, and enjoy the ride" Tatkala Monsun Melanda E22 Highway- Nothing to do with this! :P hope there's always take away to share with the community. !اِ نْ شَآ ءَ اللّهُ

Judgmental - It's Another MENTAL Word To Me

One sunny day, after back home for couple weeks from China Assignment, my family members, Father, Mother, Cousin Brothers and spouses, requested by me and recommended by the Elders, to ask for the hand of my beloved Besty and currently my life love, J "the Attractive" J. Post China Assignment: In between job. It was one of the life challenges I replied to, to test the limit of my conscience on getting premature Judgmental treatment. The Judgmental word is the big word frequently used by JJ, especially due to treatment she had during her undergraduate and postgraduate studies, especially a response to my rubbish comments on something that not being judge using fact and real data. These really open my eyes on the responses of being judgmental. Recall on my earlier working life, I have been accepted for a job at the place where I did my Industrial Training.  It was the last resort I have taken at the time of economic recession, to apply and requesting recommen