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Personal View: Toxicity

Toxic synonyms with hazardous, poisonous, venomous, virulent, noxious, dangerous, destructive, harmful, unsafe, malignant, injurious, pestilential, pernicious, environmentally unfriendly, but always being relate with chemical class.
How toxic and what is the hazards of the toxic, what suppose to do to mitigate the toxic hazards, or to lower the risk or impact of any toxic related incidents, always and suppose to be mentioned in any Chemical Datasheet.

Toxic People, have heard that?
Yeah, after googling this post is really worth to read about.


Have been knowing about toxic people since my working days. My third Employer would send all his new intake senior and junior management staff to the so called Personal Development and Leadership course. One of the course content is how to handle toxic treatment or so called negative feedback or thinking. Anyway, most of the motivational talks or course would have the equivalent content on the topic.

The toxic people would able to make a good organisation into chaos, so be aware and beware of these people. Every company I work would have some toxicity but how it impact to our working life it depends on the intensity and the numbers of the people like them.

Below is something I did to handle Toxic Situations:

1- Try to talk down to these people, or at least slowly make them change to be more positive.
2- Point 1 not working, try to avoid in personal conversation, only professional.
3- Avoid complaints, or else would end up being toxic.
4- Have own principle and not to judge, or not to expect others to own the same.
5- Pray for the good or change for the toxics, or wait them to go, sometimes, this type of 
     people if being given opportunity to show off, they'll show and dig their own grave.
6- If all not being successful, it is time to go and move on.

Let's move on, time to go.

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