One sunny day, after back home for couple weeks from China Assignment, my family members, Father, Mother, Cousin Brothers and spouses, requested by me and recommended by the Elders, to ask for the hand of my beloved Besty and currently my life love, J "the Attractive" J.
I was working hard and happy to be part of the organization but alas, it does not last long.
I have couple of sons (eh, what choice of words am I using...) and hopefully still counting, so called DIS and NLS. Both of them are very adorable and they are the light of our small family life.
Post China Assignment: In between job.
It was one of the life challenges I replied to, to test the limit of my conscience on getting premature Judgmental treatment.
The Judgmental word is the big word frequently used by JJ, especially due to treatment she had during her undergraduate and postgraduate studies, especially a response to my rubbish comments on something that not being judge using fact and real data.
These really open my eyes on the responses of being judgmental.
These really open my eyes on the responses of being judgmental.
Recall on my earlier working life, I have been accepted for a job at the place where I did my Industrial Training.
It was the last resort I have taken at the time of economic recession, to apply and requesting recommendations from the person I know best in the organization just to start a career as anything have to start somewhere.
I was working hard and happy to be part of the organization but alas, it does not last long.
Realizing working in fearsome environment and getting judgmental comments is just not my things.
Hence this "Judgmental" is one of the motivation for me to put in my resignation in very very disrespectful way.
I hate to recall these moments of my life and has be part of my life example of Judgmental without facts and its effects on a person life.
I have couple of sons (eh, what choice of words am I using...) and hopefully still counting, so called DIS and NLS. Both of them are very adorable and they are the light of our small family life.
In a calm morning, out of sudden DIS starts talking or to me, starts expressing his emotions and we thought he would be able to start talking in clear understandable language in near time.
Days and Months past, and come to couple years, he still talk the same language, the language with codes and only him thought that we do understand what he is trying to express.
In my opinion, my eldest son, DIS starting to be judgmental and so do I.
After talks, googling, observations and some judgmental comments we had, JJ and I decided, based on the studies we made, we started sending DIS for assistance.
Praise to Allah, he made progress and as an Industrialist, I do believe in continual improvement, but numbers of beloved person around us does not agree and becoming judgmental, and this is very frustrating.
Back to the day my parents and few family members visited at the time so-called future family members, ask for JJ hand, and based on Father feedback and storytelling as he can be exaggerating, there's been some judgmental questions they faced due to my status being unemployed, raising some judgmental questions, but in light, after few Q&A the response was positive.
Present-day, when JJ and I happened to face person with "Judgmental" attitude, beside talking about it in positive way, sometimes we do conclude in these manner: face it until getting aligned, sleep over it, or just run away from it.
Happy Wife Happy Life.
Comments
Post a Comment